Performing mitzvahs and taking on other Jewish adult responsibilities is what becoming a Bar Mitzvah means to me. While preparing for my Bar Mitzvah, I learned how rewarding it feels to help others.

For my Mitzvah project, my family and I helped families of sick children at the Ronald McDonald House on three days this winter. I sought out this opportunity because I knew, from my 7-year old neighbor dying of cancer, how exhausted families are after a long day at the hospital. I wanted to alleviate also having to shop, cook and clean for families. I played bingo and with toys with the kids. It warmed my heart to see the kids’ smiles and hear their laughter. We cooked for and served the families. It put a smile on my face when parents thanked me for the dinner and sat down to relax and enjoy the food. This experience reinforced how blessed I am to be healthy and surrounded by family and friends that love and support me.

My favorite part about being Jewish is celebrating Jewish holidays and traditions with family and friends. Now that I am a bar mitzvah, I will continue celebrating these and participating in Temple services and activities.

David is the son of Lisa and Michael Firestone, the brother of Daniel Firestone and the grandson of Doris (z’’l) and Stuart Alpart and Estelle and Albert Firestone. Send notes of mazel tov.